Thinking about dropping everything and moving? Wondering how to leave everything behind and move to a new country?
It might feel daunting, but trust me, it can be one of the most rewarding experiences of your life.
I’ve dropped everything and moved abroad several times now. The first time, I packed up my life and moved to Spain. I had no idea what to expect, but it turned out to be a transformative experience. I’ve since moved to various other countries, each time learning something new about myself and the world around me.
Also Read: Saying Goodbye Again – How it Feels to Move Abroad, Again
So, if you’re thinking about making that leap, let me share some advice from my own journey.
Dropping Everything and Moving: Is It Worth It?
Leaving everything behind and starting fresh in a new country sounds exciting, but it’s not always as glamorous as it might seem.
The truth is, at some point, you’ll miss certain things from home—whether it’s your favorite local food, family traditions, or even the comfort of familiar places. The grass isn’t always greener.
But here’s the other side: you’ll meet incredible new people, explore cultures you never thought you’d experience, and grow in ways you can’t imagine.
Dropping everything and moving can challenge you in ways that make you stronger and more adaptable.
Also Read: 6 Reasons Why Moving Abroad is Such a Valuable Experience
Whether you plan to move temporarily or permanently, it will be a life-changing adventure.
How to Leave Everything Behind and Move to a New Country
So, how exactly do you drop everything and start over? It might feel overwhelming, but with some careful planning, you can make it work.
Here are a few of my tips:
1. Make a Practical Plan
Start by researching your new destination—learn about the cost of living, the job market, and visa requirements.
Create a moving checklist with everything you need to do before leaving, from canceling utilities to getting your paperwork in order.
2. Set Realistic Expectations
While moving abroad is exciting, it can also be difficult.
You may face culture shock, homesickness, and (many) moments of frustration. But these challenges are a part of the process, and overcoming them will make your experience even more rewarding.
Also Read: Living and Working Abroad – What You Thought Versus What It’s Really Like
3. Build a Local Support Network
Whether it’s through local expat groups or new friends, having a support system is key.
Moving abroad, whether it’s alone or with your family, can feel isolating. So it helps to connect with others who have been through similar experiences.
I’ve found that expat communities are often warm, welcoming, and full of useful tips.
Before I move to a new place I always check if there are relevant Facebook groups I can join (just search Facebook for ‘expats in [your destination]’). These groups are great for information about life in your new destination, but also a great place to meet other expats to connect with.
After moving I check Meetup.com or ask in the Facebook groups to see if there are any events I can join to meet people and start building a local network.
Stories from Other Expats
I recommend checking out my Ask an Expat Series.
This collection of interviews with people who’ve moved to countries all over the world provides a raw and honest look at expat life. You’ll find plenty of inspiration and practical advice, as well as reassurance that you’re not alone in this journey.
More Resources to Help You Drop Everything and Move
To make sure you’re fully prepared, take a look at some of my other articles that cover different aspects of moving abroad:
I hope these articles will, first of all, help you decide whether you really should drop everything and move. And if you decide to go for it, they will help you have realistic expectations and plan for the best experience!
Featured image: one of many incredible sunsets in Aruba. I have often decided I needed a change of scenery, packed my bags and moved abroad.
This time I chose this popular tourist destination in the Caribbean and got to work on a beautiful beach for a season.